lady's nite out...may5-8

KateisLost · Moonlight mod

RE: lady's nite out...may5-8

Island_Reigns · Yay Lost!!

KateisLost wrote:

Island_Reigns wrote:

KateisLost wrote:

1...2...3...4...5...6...7...8...9..10

must not murder roommates, must not murder roommates, murdering people it bad, must not murder roommates *deep breaths*

Uh-oh, what's wrong?

How was your day?

brother, GF, and GF's brother has just been A-holes to me all day, b!tching at me about every little thing

I'm sorry!

That sucks that they are all ganging up on you like that! furious

hrslvr_paints · Date: May 6, 2008

Wow, that's great! What are your plans for the summer?

I have to find a job still and then who knows. We were thinking of going on some sort of extended weekend trip as a family but all plans for such are now on hold.

I hope you get to go. Would that be with your brother and family?

It would have been me, my mom, my brother, sister-in-law, and nephew, but unless my mom wants to go somewhere for a weekend it won't happen. (Which is what happens when life throws you a curve ball to your gut.)

KateisLost · Moonlight mod

hrslvr_paints wrote:

I saw Stephenie Meyer's new book today. (It's so weird to type my own name but have to spell it differently.) I read the inside flap and it sounds an awful lot like Cocoon and Invasion of the Body Snatchers.

i didn't know that was your real name Paints smile

i have never read/seen either of those, but i do want to get the new book, see if it is as good as Twilight

FMA_AishaKitty · not sleepy

KateisLost wrote:
it's just, i know i am only 17( my brother is 23, GF is 21 and GF's brother is 19 or 20) but my choices should be respected too! i shouldn't have to deal with all this crap they've been giving me about my life!

they should know that thanks to you they have a place to stay though so they should know better and just keep their negativity to themselves and let you do what you like

Island_Reigns · Yay Lost!!

KateisLost wrote:

hrslvr_paints wrote:

KateisLost wrote:

Island_Reigns wrote:

KateisLost wrote:

1...2...3...4...5...6...7...8...9..10

must not murder roommates, must not murder roommates, murdering people it bad, must not murder roommates *deep breaths*

Uh-oh, what's wrong?

How was your day?

brother, GF, and GF's brother has just been A-holes to me all day, b!tching at me about every little thing

I'm sorry, Kate. Roommates can be rough at times. And it's probably worse for you because it's family essentially that you're dealing with.

it's just, i know i am only 17( my brother is 23, GF is 21 and GF's brother is 19 or 20) but my choices should be respected too! i shouldn't have to deal with all this crap they've been giving me about my life!

Hmmm... yeah it's none of their business and your brother should be sticking up for you!

KateisLost · Moonlight mod

Island_Reigns wrote:

KateisLost wrote:

Island_Reigns wrote:

KateisLost wrote:

1...2...3...4...5...6...7...8...9..10

must not murder roommates, must not murder roommates, murdering people it bad, must not murder roommates *deep breaths*

Uh-oh, what's wrong?

How was your day?

brother, GF, and GF's brother has just been A-holes to me all day, b!tching at me about every little thing

I'm sorry! That sucks that they are all ganging up on you like that!

thanks Island

i can't wait until my parent's new house is finished! then i can moving out of here! today it is almost to the point that i'd rather live with my parents again then stay here

Island_Reigns · Yay Lost!!

hrslvr_paints wrote:

Wow, that's great! What are your plans for the summer?

I have to find a job still and then who knows. We were thinking of going on some sort of extended weekend trip as a family but all plans for such are now on hold.

I hope you get to go. Would that be with your brother and family?

It would have been me, my mom, my brother, sister-in-law, and nephew, but unless my mom wants to go somewhere for a weekend it won't happen. (Which is what happens when life throws you a curve ball to your gut.)

Did something bad happen? Or do you not want to talk about it?

Island_Reigns · Yay Lost!!

KateisLost wrote:

Island_Reigns wrote:

KateisLost wrote:

Island_Reigns wrote:

KateisLost wrote:

1...2...3...4...5...6...7...8...9..10

must not murder roommates, must not murder roommates, murdering people it bad, must not murder roommates *deep breaths*

Uh-oh, what's wrong?

How was your day?

brother, GF, and GF's brother has just been A-holes to me all day, b!tching at me about every little thing

I'm sorry! That sucks that they are all ganging up on you like that!

thanks Island

i can't wait until my parent's new house is finished! then i can moving out of here! today it is almost to the point that i'd rather live with my parents again then stay here

It's too bad they can't live in your parents house. hmm

hrslvr_paints · Date: May 6, 2008

KateisLost wrote:

hrslvr_paints wrote:

I saw Stephenie Meyer's new book today. (It's so weird to type my own name but have to spell it differently.) I read the inside flap and it sounds an awful lot like Cocoon and Invasion of the Body Snatchers.

i didn't know that was your real name Paints

i have never read/seen either of those, but i do want to get the new book, see if it is as good as Twilight

I've not seen those films either, but I do know their basic premises. That is indeed my real name and it was so weird to have to spell it differently.

Island_Reigns · Yay Lost!!

KateisLost wrote:

hrslvr_paints wrote:

Man is it going to be a long summer. It's only 60 outside right now and I'm roasting, wondering how I'm going to sleep with being so hot. The temperatures are only going to go up from here.

that's about what is was here today and i was just perfect but if it gets any hotter i won't be feeling so good

That's funny... I'm cold when it's 60!

KateisLost · Moonlight mod

FMA_AishaKitty wrote:

KateisLost wrote:
it's just, i know i am only 17( my brother is 23, GF is 21 and GF's brother is 19 or 20) but my choices should be respected too! i shouldn't have to deal with all this crap they've been giving me about my life!

they should know that thanks to you they have a place to stay though so they should know better and just keep their negativity to themselves and let you do what you like

yeah! i am the one that let them move back in here! they seem to have forgotten that little fact!

and i pull my weight around here, i do the dishes, i clean up what i can around the house, which isn't much because my stuff is now only on my side of the bedroom, but i do want i can. i ask if they need help with dinner when they cook, i bring dinner back from my parents house when they cook for us, i take out the trash sometimes, i help clean up the yard. i don't keep them up at night by staying on my computer really late, i don't hog the bathroom, i keep my part of the sink counter clean, i don't turn the tv up loud when they are on the phone or trying to sleep, i don't play music loud.

i'm a good roommate darn it!!!!! i don't need the crap they've been giving me furious

hrslvr_paints · Date: May 6, 2008

It would have been me, my mom, my brother, sister-in-law, and nephew, but unless my mom wants to go somewhere for a weekend it won't happen. (Which is what happens when life throws you a curve ball to your gut.)

Did something bad happen? Or do you not want to talk about it?

My sister-in-law was diagnosed with breast cancer last week. At first they thought she would only have to have a lumpectomy and possibly radiation and chemotherapy but she went in for a mammogram last Friday morning to figure out just what was going on and the results were not good. They had to go back and see the doctor later that day and they scheduled her for an MRI yesterday morning. At that point it was looking as though she might have to have both breasts removed and chemo and radiation. They had the MRI yesterday morning and luckily it doesn't appear that the cancer has spread to her lymph nodes. One breast is completely full of tumors and there was a suspicious lump in the other. They went back to the hospital yesterday afternoon for a biopsy of the suspicious lump and they're waiting for the results. She'll definitely have to lose one breast and go through chemo and radiation, but nothing is for sure yet. They want to fly down to Dallas to meet with my dad's first oncologist and have him look at everything they've gotten back from the tests they've had before they decide on anything.

Island_Reigns · Yay Lost!!

KateisLost wrote:

FMA_AishaKitty wrote:

KateisLost wrote:
it's just, i know i am only 17( my brother is 23, GF is 21 and GF's brother is 19 or 20) but my choices should be respected too! i shouldn't have to deal with all this crap they've been giving me about my life!

they should know that thanks to you they have a place to stay though so they should know better and just keep their negativity to themselves and let you do what you like

yeah! i am the one that let them move back in here! they seem to have forgotten that little fact!

and i pull my weight around here, i do the dishes, i clean up what i can around the house, which isn't much because my stuff is now only on my side of the bedroom, but i do want i can. i ask if they need help with dinner when they cook, i bring dinner back from my parents house when they cook for us, i take out the trash sometimes, i help clean up the yard. i don't keep them up at night by staying on my computer really late, i don't hog the bathroom, i keep my part of the sink counter clean, i don't turn the tv up loud when they are on the phone or trying to sleep, i don't play music loud.

i'm a good roommate darn it!!!!! i don't need the crap they've been giving me

Wow, you do a lot! I can't imagine what they would give you crap about! hmm

Island_Reigns · Yay Lost!!

hrslvr_paints wrote:

It would have been me, my mom, my brother, sister-in-law, and nephew, but unless my mom wants to go somewhere for a weekend it won't happen. (Which is what happens when life throws you a curve ball to your gut.)

Did something bad happen? Or do you not want to talk about it?

My sister-in-law was diagnosed with breast cancer last week. At first they thought she would only have to have a lumpectomy and possibly radiation and chemotherapy but she went in for a mammogram last Friday morning to figure out just what was going on and the results were not good. They had to go back and see the doctor later that day and they scheduled her for an MRI yesterday morning. At that point it was looking as though she might have to have both breasts removed and chemo and radiation. They had the MRI yesterday morning and luckily it doesn't appear that the cancer has spread to her lymph nodes. One breast is completely full of tumors and there was a suspicious lump in the other. They went back to the hospital yesterday afternoon for a biopsy of the suspicious lump and they're waiting for the results. She'll definitely have to lose one breast and go through chemo and radiation, but nothing is for sure yet. They want to fly down to Dallas to meet with my dad's first oncologist and have him look at everything they've gotten back from the tests they've had before they decide on anything.

Oh no! I'm sorry to hear that! How old is she?

hrslvr_paints · Date: May 6, 2008

Island_Reigns wrote:

hrslvr_paints wrote:

It would have been me, my mom, my brother, sister-in-law, and nephew, but unless my mom wants to go somewhere for a weekend it won't happen. (Which is what happens when life throws you a curve ball to your gut.)

Did something bad happen? Or do you not want to talk about it?

My sister-in-law was diagnosed with breast cancer last week. At first they thought she would only have to have a lumpectomy and possibly radiation and chemotherapy but she went in for a mammogram last Friday morning to figure out just what was going on and the results were not good. They had to go back and see the doctor later that day and they scheduled her for an MRI yesterday morning. At that point it was looking as though she might have to have both breasts removed and chemo and radiation. They had the MRI yesterday morning and luckily it doesn't appear that the cancer has spread to her lymph nodes. One breast is completely full of tumors and there was a suspicious lump in the other. They went back to the hospital yesterday afternoon for a biopsy of the suspicious lump and they're waiting for the results. She'll definitely have to lose one breast and go through chemo and radiation, but nothing is for sure yet. They want to fly down to Dallas to meet with my dad's first oncologist and have him look at everything they've gotten back from the tests they've had before they decide on anything.

Oh no! I'm sorry to hear that! How old is she?

27

KateisLost · Moonlight mod

hrslvr_paints wrote:

KateisLost wrote:

hrslvr_paints wrote:

I saw Stephenie Meyer's new book today. (It's so weird to type my own name but have to spell it differently.) I read the inside flap and it sounds an awful lot like Cocoon and Invasion of the Body Snatchers.

i didn't know that was your real name Paints

i have never read/seen either of those, but i do want to get the new book, see if it is as good as Twilight

I've not seen those films either, but I do know their basic premises. That is indeed my real name and it was so weird to have to spell it differently.

how do you spell your name?

FMA_AishaKitty · not sleepy

Island_Reigns wrote:

KateisLost wrote:
yeah! i am the one that let them move back in here! they seem to have forgotten that little fact!

and i pull my weight around here, i do the dishes, i clean up what i can around the house, which isn't much because my stuff is now only on my side of the bedroom, but i do want i can. i ask if they need help with dinner when they cook, i bring dinner back from my parents house when they cook for us, i take out the trash sometimes, i help clean up the yard. i don't keep them up at night by staying on my computer really late, i don't hog the bathroom, i keep my part of the sink counter clean, i don't turn the tv up loud when they are on the phone or trying to sleep, i don't play music loud.

i'm a good roommate darn it!!!!! i don't need the crap they've been giving me

Wow, you do a lot! I can't imagine what they would give you crap about!

KateisLost · Moonlight mod

Island_Reigns wrote:

KateisLost wrote:

hrslvr_paints wrote:

Man is it going to be a long summer. It's only 60 outside right now and I'm roasting, wondering how I'm going to sleep with being so hot. The temperatures are only going to go up from here.

that's about what is was here today and i was just perfect but if it gets any hotter i won't be feeling so good

That's funny... I'm cold when it's 60!

i like the temp to be 65 or so, that is just right for me smile

hrslvr_paints · Date: May 6, 2008

KateisLost wrote:

hrslvr_paints wrote:

KateisLost wrote:

hrslvr_paints wrote:

I saw Stephenie Meyer's new book today. (It's so weird to type my own name but have to spell it differently.) I read the inside flap and it sounds an awful lot like Cocoon and Invasion of the Body Snatchers.

i didn't know that was your real name Paints

i have never read/seen either of those, but i do want to get the new book, see if it is as good as Twilight

I've not seen those films either, but I do know their basic premises. That is indeed my real name and it was so weird to have to spell it differently.

how do you spell your name?

The traditional way- Stephanie

Island_Reigns · Yay Lost!!

hrslvr_paints wrote:

Island_Reigns wrote:

hrslvr_paints wrote:

It would have been me, my mom, my brother, sister-in-law, and nephew, but unless my mom wants to go somewhere for a weekend it won't happen. (Which is what happens when life throws you a curve ball to your gut.)

Did something bad happen? Or do you not want to talk about it?

My sister-in-law was diagnosed with breast cancer last week. At first they thought she would only have to have a lumpectomy and possibly radiation and chemotherapy but she went in for a mammogram last Friday morning to figure out just what was going on and the results were not good. They had to go back and see the doctor later that day and they scheduled her for an MRI yesterday morning. At that point it was looking as though she might have to have both breasts removed and chemo and radiation. They had the MRI yesterday morning and luckily it doesn't appear that the cancer has spread to her lymph nodes. One breast is completely full of tumors and there was a suspicious lump in the other. They went back to the hospital yesterday afternoon for a biopsy of the suspicious lump and they're waiting for the results. She'll definitely have to lose one breast and go through chemo and radiation, but nothing is for sure yet. They want to fly down to Dallas to meet with my dad's first oncologist and have him look at everything they've gotten back from the tests they've had before they decide on anything.

Oh no! I'm sorry to hear that! How old is she?

27

Man, that's young for breast cancer. I hope she'll have other options after going to Dallas and that she'll recover just fine.

FMA_AishaKitty · not sleepy

I'm sorry about that Paints cry

hrslvr_paints · Date: May 6, 2008

KateisLost wrote:

Island_Reigns wrote:

KateisLost wrote:

hrslvr_paints wrote:

Man is it going to be a long summer. It's only 60 outside right now and I'm roasting, wondering how I'm going to sleep with being so hot. The temperatures are only going to go up from here.

that's about what is was here today and i was just perfect but if it gets any hotter i won't be feeling so good

That's funny... I'm cold when it's 60!

i like the temp to be 65 or so, that is just right for me

I would love it if it stayed that temperature all year round. Because then it would get just cool enough at night that I could sleep comfortably and in the winter it would still snow in the mountains so that we had water for the summer and such, but then I wouldn't ever have to deal with the snow myself. That would be glorious.

KateisLost · Moonlight mod

hrslvr_paints wrote:

My sister-in-law was diagnosed with breast cancer last week. At first they thought she would only have to have a lumpectomy and possibly radiation and chemotherapy but she went in for a mammogram last Friday morning to figure out just what was going on and the results were not good. They had to go back and see the doctor later that day and they scheduled her for an MRI yesterday morning. At that point it was looking as though she might have to have both breasts removed and chemo and radiation. They had the MRI yesterday morning and luckily it doesn't appear that the cancer has spread to her lymph nodes. One breast is completely full of tumors and there was a suspicious lump in the other. They went back to the hospital yesterday afternoon for a biopsy of the suspicious lump and they're waiting for the results. She'll definitely have to lose one breast and go through chemo and radiation, but nothing is for sure yet. They want to fly down to Dallas to meet with my dad's first oncologist and have him look at everything they've gotten back from the tests they've had before they decide on anything.

I am so sorry to hear that Paints cry

KateisLost · Moonlight mod

Island_Reigns wrote:

KateisLost wrote:

yeah! i am the one that let them move back in here! they seem to have forgotten that little fact!

and i pull my weight around here, i do the dishes, i clean up what i can around the house, which isn't much because my stuff is now only on my side of the bedroom, but i do want i can. i ask if they need help with dinner when they cook, i bring dinner back from my parents house when they cook for us, i take out the trash sometimes, i help clean up the yard. i don't keep them up at night by staying on my computer really late, i don't hog the bathroom, i keep my part of the sink counter clean, i don't turn the tv up loud when they are on the phone or trying to sleep, i don't play music loud.

i'm a good roommate darn it!!!!! i don't need the crap they've been giving me

Wow, you do a lot! I can't imagine what they would give you crap about!

i try, i really do

hrslvr_paints · Date: May 6, 2008

Island_Reigns wrote:

hrslvr_paints wrote:

Island_Reigns wrote:

hrslvr_paints wrote:

It would have been me, my mom, my brother, sister-in-law, and nephew, but unless my mom wants to go somewhere for a weekend it won't happen. (Which is what happens when life throws you a curve ball to your gut.)

Did something bad happen? Or do you not want to talk about it?

My sister-in-law was diagnosed with breast cancer last week. At first they thought she would only have to have a lumpectomy and possibly radiation and chemotherapy but she went in for a mammogram last Friday morning to figure out just what was going on and the results were not good. They had to go back and see the doctor later that day and they scheduled her for an MRI yesterday morning. At that point it was looking as though she might have to have both breasts removed and chemo and radiation. They had the MRI yesterday morning and luckily it doesn't appear that the cancer has spread to her lymph nodes. One breast is completely full of tumors and there was a suspicious lump in the other. They went back to the hospital yesterday afternoon for a biopsy of the suspicious lump and they're waiting for the results. She'll definitely have to lose one breast and go through chemo and radiation, but nothing is for sure yet. They want to fly down to Dallas to meet with my dad's first oncologist and have him look at everything they've gotten back from the tests they've had before they decide on anything.

Oh no! I'm sorry to hear that! How old is she?

27

Man, that's young for breast cancer. I hope she'll have other options after going to Dallas and that she'll recover just fine.

The good news is that the cure rate for breast cancer is really high. The tumors she has are technically non-malignant, the last I heard, but it does make her 50% more likely to develop malignant breast cancer later in life and she'll have to have a mammogram at least once a year for the rest of her life. Thanks for the well-wishes everyone. It's been tough on my family, especially since we've already done the cancer thing a lot. We just hoped that as far as cancer was concerned we'd done our time. I've fallen back into the habit of responding "fine" when people ask me how I am. I learned when my dad was sick that people don't really care about the answer they just need the assurance of hearing "fine" when they ask you how you're doing.

hrslvr_paints · Date: May 6, 2008

FMA_AishaKitty wrote:

I'm sorry about that Paints

Thanks.

hrslvr_paints · Date: May 6, 2008

KateisLost wrote:

hrslvr_paints wrote:

My sister-in-law was diagnosed with breast cancer last week. At first they thought she would only have to have a lumpectomy and possibly radiation and chemotherapy but she went in for a mammogram last Friday morning to figure out just what was going on and the results were not good. They had to go back and see the doctor later that day and they scheduled her for an MRI yesterday morning. At that point it was looking as though she might have to have both breasts removed and chemo and radiation. They had the MRI yesterday morning and luckily it doesn't appear that the cancer has spread to her lymph nodes. One breast is completely full of tumors and there was a suspicious lump in the other. They went back to the hospital yesterday afternoon for a biopsy of the suspicious lump and they're waiting for the results. She'll definitely have to lose one breast and go through chemo and radiation, but nothing is for sure yet. They want to fly down to Dallas to meet with my dad's first oncologist and have him look at everything they've gotten back from the tests they've had before they decide on anything.

I am so sorry to hear that Paints

Thanks.

We should know more tomorrow because I think the biopsy results were only supposed to take two days.

KateisLost · Moonlight mod

Island_Reigns wrote:

hrslvr_paints wrote:

Island_Reigns wrote:

hrslvr_paints wrote:

It would have been me, my mom, my brother, sister-in-law, and nephew, but unless my mom wants to go somewhere for a weekend it won't happen. (Which is what happens when life throws you a curve ball to your gut.)

Did something bad happen? Or do you not want to talk about it?

My sister-in-law was diagnosed with breast cancer last week. At first they thought she would only have to have a lumpectomy and possibly radiation and chemotherapy but she went in for a mammogram last Friday morning to figure out just what was going on and the results were not good. They had to go back and see the doctor later that day and they scheduled her for an MRI yesterday morning. At that point it was looking as though she might have to have both breasts removed and chemo and radiation. They had the MRI yesterday morning and luckily it doesn't appear that the cancer has spread to her lymph nodes. One breast is completely full of tumors and there was a suspicious lump in the other. They went back to the hospital yesterday afternoon for a biopsy of the suspicious lump and they're waiting for the results. She'll definitely have to lose one breast and go through chemo and radiation, but nothing is for sure yet. They want to fly down to Dallas to meet with my dad's first oncologist and have him look at everything they've gotten back from the tests they've had before they decide on anything.

Oh no! I'm sorry to hear that! How old is she?

27

Man, that's young for breast cancer. I hope she'll have other options after going to Dallas and that she'll recover just fine.

i hope so too!

Island_Reigns · Yay Lost!!

KateisLost wrote:

Island_Reigns wrote:

KateisLost wrote:

yeah! i am the one that let them move back in here! they seem to have forgotten that little fact!

and i pull my weight around here, i do the dishes, i clean up what i can around the house, which isn't much because my stuff is now only on my side of the bedroom, but i do want i can. i ask if they need help with dinner when they cook, i bring dinner back from my parents house when they cook for us, i take out the trash sometimes, i help clean up the yard. i don't keep them up at night by staying on my computer really late, i don't hog the bathroom, i keep my part of the sink counter clean, i don't turn the tv up loud when they are on the phone or trying to sleep, i don't play music loud.

i'm a good roommate darn it!!!!! i don't need the crap they've been giving me

Wow, you do a lot! I can't imagine what they would give you crap about!

i try, i really do

Well it sounds like they are the ones who need to try. I know it's frustrating. My sister and her boyfriend get on my nerves a lot. He and I aren't really speaking at the moment. It's difficult when everyone has their own ideas of how they want things to be. Especially when you are the only one who is trying to be respectful and live in harmony.